The reviews of Ellie Slott Fisher’s newest book, It’s Either Her or Me: A Guide to Help a Mom and Her Daughter-in-Law Get Along, are in…

“An engaging, insightful, and psychologically astute take on the triangle formed by a man, the woman who raised him, and the woman who bed and wed him.” – Susan Shapiro, author of Five Men Who Broke My Heart.

“The relationship between a mother and her daughter-in-law is often fraught. Journalist Fisher covers the situation in depth with empathy, drawing on dozens of interviews with women and discussions with psychologists to offer a balanced approach to established or potential problems.” - Library Journal.

“Ellie Slott Fisher tackles the trickiest of all family relationships with wisdom, wit and laughter. This book is a must-read for mothers with sons of any age, as well as wives, girlfriends, sisters and the men themselves.” – Leah Klungness, Ph.D., co-author of The Complete Single Mother.

Most enjoyable and insightful reading for all of us who deal with the challenges of making life work – particularly when it involves the developing of new and yet quickly important relationships.” – Herbert Pardes, M.D., professor of psychiatry, Columbia University.